y is it so hard to find someone that you can jus be happy with, from both people view of the relationship??? if i get hurt again, my heart just can't take it. what shud i do?

I don't know that's how life is, I mean I guess if you didn't go through all the bullshit it wouldn't be as amazing when you finally do have that person in your life..however you should never count on love to make you happy because it is one of the almost unpredictable and deceiving things in life..to truly love another...and this has been said time and time again in countless psychology books...but to truly love another completely and irrevocably one must be able to live life happily and successfully without that significant other...so i'd say do some soul searching and focus on the things that make you happy other than relying on someone else's love.

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